The need to help

Pawan Murthy spoke at the October 5, 2010 Columbus Young Professionals networking breakfast, here are my notes.

Psychological Egoism - there is no deed that is unselfish (selfless)

I am ok with this theory. If everyone did this and realized it was beneficial, it would happen a lot more often.

Steve Geyer, Founder Shadowbox

The people who know you denots the currency of your success (quality  and quantity, ex: 1M pesos vs 10USD)

Dont put all your emotional eggs in one basket. If you spread things out when something fails all is not lost.

Guard your reputation with you life.

What struggles have you overcome?
What struggles are you working to overcome?

Consider helping others out.  A good way to decide how you want to help is by reviewing the needs of persons.  Maslow's hierarchy is a framework of an individuals needs.

I wonder, is there a group hierarchy of needs framework?
Where do you help?

You, inc.

Ben Blanquera was the guest speaker at the December 2010 CYP CLUB networking breakfast. Here are my notes:

1. What are the five most important things to me? 
2. What are the five areas of my life to which I dedicate the most time? 
3. Do they align? 

Consider treating yourself and guideing your decisions as if you were a incorporated business.

Your assets would be:

1. What you know 
2. Who you know 
3. (I would add, Who knows you)

Also, consider this:

An Evening with Matt Groening

Matt Groening discussed his career in comics and television with Tom Gammill, an acclaimed writer/producer/cartoonist, who has written for such programs as Seinfeld, Late Night with David Letterman, and The Simpsons.

After Groening and Gammill came out, they thanked everyone for coming and introduced a video with some of their favorite clips, also it had some cool entrance music.

Groening shared some great examples of his early work on Life Is Hell and shared his inspirations.

By the end of the session they welcomed questions from the audience.  I didn't have a full idea of what I wanted to ask, but I could not resist the chance to ask something to the creator of The Simpsons.

Only moments after my question I started thinking of better questions.

• "Mr Groening, thanks for coming out tonight.  Could you share how The Simpsons has had to deal with pressure from the networks to include in-show advertising?"
• "Throughout all your experiences what has been the biggest frustration or struggle and how have you dealt with it, and what did it teach you?"

I can't recall the exact question or my phrasing, but it was something to the effect of "You had already mentioned a little about how other cartoons have been an inspiration, can you comment on how Itchy and Scratchy were created and maybe the influence of Tom and Jerry?"  

Groening responded with yeah [something, something]  and then I asked if they ever really completed an episode - especially the one when the nerds unplugged the TV.  He's tried to pitch a full episode of Itchy and Scratchy but it was not received well by the other writers, and so they have never written an full episode.

Here is a follow-up article by the Dispatch

Recently I was downtown and I noticed the bicycle posts were masked for painting.  This seemed normal, except when I got to this bicycle post.  

At first glance I thought the rider made a bad decision by locking on a post which obviously was going to be painted.

Then upon closer inspection I noticed the rider was an early-bird, and not a do-do.

Car powered by ... wind?

There is something new on the skyline of Northwest Central Ohio, a 150 foot wind turbine.

Apparently Byers Auto Group decided to build a wind turbine so as to be nice to the environment.

My estimation is that it is the most extreme of attraction stunts.

Ohio Department of Development Export Awards Luncheon

Ohio DOD Global Export Awards luncheon.

One of the honorees was the Columbus Washboard Company.  I was entertained to learn that they are the last US manufacturer of washboards.

Digital non conference 9-22-10

Notes from September 22, 2010 Digital Non-conference lunch discussion panel (left to right):

• Dave Knox- CMO, Rockfish (moderator)
• America Ferrera - "Ugly Betty"
• Pete Blackshaw - EVP Digital Strategic Services, Nielsen Online
• Drew Buckley- COO, Electus 

Some interesting stats from a video by Nielsen Catalina Ventures

• 59% of us families use TV and the net simultaneously
• By 2020 less than 30% of us households will have kids and most will be multicultural
• 1 in 4 ppl have access to a pc in world

How will the telenovela change things?

BUCKLEY: The Hispanic audience in LA is greater than the population of Chicago. We have to consider building entertainment beyond Univision or Telemundo. So we took the concept of "Pedro and Maria" to MTV. 

But there are problems with who gets the international rights. The network wants rights to produce the concept or shows in order to develop varaiations abroad.

What does digital media do to help you sell?

FERRERA:  The content has to be good first and foremost.  I didn't have choice of having a digital image or not, it was more so deciding to manage it or not.  For example: my friends would text and say, "I'm following you [on Twitter]" and I didn't even know what they meant at the time.   

Digital media has really helped me stay in touch with the fan base.  For example: on my birthday I would say to my fans, "for my bday donate a few bucks to this fund to build schools."   

Pedro and Maria is a great example to develop mainstream shows.  Growing up I was a Latina, but at the same time I was a Latina-teen in a USA surrounding.  

What impact do you see digital involvement impacting success of brands?

BUCKLEY: Fred was successful on YouTube so execs took him and developed his work into traditional media.  It was a risk to take digital to television, but the reality is, is that he brought the viewers.   

A big question is, how do you get the two connected?   Fantasy football has what it takes, since guys are interested to watch on TV and track on-line.

BLACKSHAW: The trifecta of paid media was this year: olympics, soccer, super bowl

BUCKLEY: Fan clubs don't have presidents (or leadership) it is self-lead and evolves all on it's own.

FERRERA: I recently did the first FaceBook talk show about the Dry Land and thousands of people now know about an independent film which otherwise they may not have learned of it since there was no marketing dollars available.

Having the status updates come from the source as opposed to a fan club president garners a much better response.

What do you see the role of brands in future entertainment?

BUCKLEY: It will be hard for brands to reach consumers via broadcast.  Keep in mind Twitter was not part of our lexicon 2008.  The goal then is to identify the solid story so branding can be built upon it.

BLACKSHAW:  Brands will evolve into more of an experience.

AUDIENCE QUESTIONS:
What would you have done differently in franchising biggest lose?

BUCKLEY: The Biggest Loser started working with Subway and 24/7 Fitness and other sponsors and help them get media buys.

How do you balance authenticity of a personal brand versus a "faceless" brand?

BLACKSHAW:  How to stay authentic? I make sure I believe in the content and It will be good.  If you compromise the show with poor brand content it will for sure get you.

How do address the negative things in social media?

BLACKSHAW: I don't address them, rather I move toward the things that are popular. It was scary to put myself out there since there were not boundaries. When something bad does happen usually the other fans attack the villan

BUCKLEY:  Sometimes the best approach for monitoring social media is to let it float (whether good or bad), and see where it goes.

How will the social-media interactions play out on Pedro and Maria?

BUCKLEY: We are just getting into the planning and development and writing, butt it will cover things like advising/deciding what music will play when they first kiss.  Just like The Hills decision of LC going to France vs staying with boy friend.

Population of Hispanic in LA is equal to the population of Chicago. How will you balance the need for local markets (ex Midwest, east cost)?

BUCKLEY:  It doesn't mean that it is just in south west. It has to be about content, the fact that they are Latino is nonessential.

BLACKSHAW:  Most people have an latent desire to be Latino.

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The discussion panel was really enjoyable and it opened my eyes to the trends of where television shows are headed.  I plan to attend the full non-conference next year.

Cats and Dogs

The Siberian Lynx has the largest hind leg among the felines. When running on snow the unique leg allows weight to be distributed over more area (much like a snow shoe) this trait is especially beneficial when chasing fast food.

At this moment this frisky feline noticed was eyeing the dingo, the zookeeper said the Lynx would be very happy to take the canine to dinner (if you know what I mean.)

I got to see these animals and a few other while at the National Multiple Sclerosis Society Dinner of Champions which was held at the Columbus Zoo.

Congratulations to Jack Hanna for being named Columbus Dinner of Champions Honoree.

Friday was on fire

Sarah and I made the trip downtown for the free show of WaterFire and Ballet Met's preview show. It was a lot of fun.

Please allow myself to introduce...myself

Not to be pretentious, but I thought it would be interesting to learn what the proper etiquette is when introducing others. Here is an answer I found online:

When introducing two people to each other, you do need to remember precedence (the order in which people are addressed, greeted, introduced, referred, seated and served.)

In both formal and informal social settings, women have precedence over men; older people over younger (as long as they are the same gender); smaller groups usually over larger groups.

Senior executives have precedence over Junior executives. If there are two of the same rank, defer to the one with seniority.

Clients and customers have precedence over fellow associates, regardless of rank.

When making introductions always remember to:

1. Determine the order of precedence.
2. Say the most distinguished person's first and last name or title and last name, first, while looking at him or her. Use appropriate names and titles.
3. Choose appropriate introductions, for example: Formal - "Rev. Jones, may I present...Mr. Smith", Business or social - "Ms. Green, may I introduce...Mr. White"; or
"Mr. Client, I would like to introduce...Mr. Co-Worker"; Casual - "Susan Smith,this is...Bob Jones", may appear unsophisticated, especially in a business setting.
4. Always stand for introductions and make eye contact.
5. Always introduce people by their preferential name.

Thank you for writing.

Best regards,
Fleming Allaire, Ph.D.
Dr. Manners

Now the big test is remembering the title for each person.

Florida vacation

We were so lucky this year to have discovered "Sarah's Seaside" located in Indian Rocks Beach, FL. We left Friday after work, slept in Tennessee that night - then on to paradise for a week.

Our condo was situated right on the beach front with our own private beach chairs. The ocean was so warm we could float as long as we wanted. Our little community had a heated pool and a few other families that were all friendly.

We only left the property for some rides down the bike path running alongside Gulf Blvd and a trip to the happiest place on Earth. It was a terrific vacation, full of relaxation - we can't wait to go back.

The Ohio State Fair

My little lamb, petting a little lamb.

I am gonna make you pop-u-hoo-lar

We received an amazing gift from my parents for our third wedding anniversary.Turns out being Wicked simply is just being misunderstood. Great show, I highly recommend it.

Christmas in July

The Cleverley's left town in early July and we wanted to welcome them home.

Monkey see, monkey doo-doo

According to their style, Nick and Heidi tossed sock monkeys to the single crowd instead of the traditional bouquet and garter.  Great ceremony, fun reception, wonderful couple. We wish you the best in Arizona.

Governor's mansion visit 2010

The Young Professionals of Ohio were welcomed to the Governor's mansion for a picnic, June 2010. Yvette McGee Brown, Rob Davlin, Gov. Ted Strickland, Derek Grosso, Richard Cordray.

Excerpt from Sales Secrets

These are the levels that a sales person has to go through when meeting with a new prospect.

Unknown 
Known
Socialization:
Emotional-ization: There is an exchange of information on a personal level

Confidence: It is not until this level that the prospect can truly be comfortable with the rep and share vulnerable information without fear of manipulation.

by Stephen Schiffman

Zing-Zang-Zoom

At the last minute a good friend passed some Barnum and Bailey Circus tickets our way. We felt like kids again.

I have discovered something that I am sure the Circus talent has been doing for a long time now, and if not - they should. During the night incredible acts were performed with unique skill that captured the most of the audience's attention. However, it was in the brief moments that their balance was off and with arms flailing it brought you to the edge of your seat. Whether they do this on purpose or not those are the moments I was most engaged and entertained.

Don't let Mr. Gravity bring you down.

Q's on First

The numbers on my phone have 1 at the top left, then run sequentially left-right, top-bottom.

same with the copier in the office.
same as garage door keycodes

The numbers on my calculator have the 1 at the bottom left, then run sequentially left-right, bottom-top.  Same as the onscreen calculator, same as my keyboard.  I wonder why some product arrange one way and some the other.

 What examples can you think of in your life?

Words of wisdom from ar-tic-u-la-tion

When preparing for you next presentation remember:

1. It's all about the audience
2. Don't be nervous
3. Slow it down
4. Body talk matters
5. Tell me the time, not how the watch is made

HA!

• Take a deep breath
• shrug your shoulders
• laugh out loud, you have nervousness in you body - release it through laughter

65%

• Non-verbal communication is 65% of your presentation
• eye contact, posture, clothing, facial expressions, tone/volume, hands gestures
• Avoid the ping-pong head (looking side-to side across the audience, express one thought, then switch eye contact
• Avoid moving your hands before you speak, gesture along with voice and tone

"That that is is that that is not is not"

• Speak like a sentence with punctuation, otherwise you sound really strange. "That that is, is. That that is not, is not"
• For a comma: pause
• For a period: take a breath
• After a paragraph: swallow
• Silence can be very powerful, it allows people to process what you have said

Case in Point

• Answer one question
• Highlight one point
• Then use the rest of your time to provide support to that one point